“Oh, the shock and horror”, laments the social media darling to her gasping social media audience. “If you die without a Will, the big-bad-wolf Government will take all you have, including your children”. Hurry to the business I am promoting so selflessly to you and save your wealth and save your children.”

For many people, love, laughter and happily ever after can exist without the big white dress and the church bells ringing. In fact, for many modern couples, living together as man and wife no longer requires a formal marriage being entered.

A perceived honest commitment to pursue fairness plays a massive role in the acceptance of the outcome. Even unpopular decisions would survive a fairness test when there was an intellectually honest commitment to fairness.